Being Well Podcast: How to Not Die Alone: Navigating Modern Dating with Logan Ury

11 Apr Being Well Podcast: How to Not Die Alone: Navigating Modern Dating with Logan Ury

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LISTEN

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About our Guest: Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach, and the author of  How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She is the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, and former head of Google’s behavioral science team the Irrational Lab.[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]

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0:00: Introduction  

1:40: Why is modern dating so hard?

4:15: Romanticism

6:20: Being in relationship for self-actualization

8:25: Romanticizers, Maximizers, and Hesitators

11:15: Reframes for the Romanticizer

14:20: What kind of shared qualities actually matter?

19:25: Reframes for the Maximizer

26:35: The tendency to externalize problems and avoid vulnerability

32:25: Reframes for the Hesitator

36:50: Information vs. emotion – appreciation for romance

41:05: Bids and turning towards

43:05: What other things do people tend to underestimate in relationships?

47:20: The aspect of you that is brought out by your partner

48:45: How to use apps in more effective ways

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