Author: Rick Hanson

To blissful is to see what is tender and beautiful, and wish well. Look for good things in others. Know what the act and attitude of blessing feel like, and take in the experience to call upon it in the future....

When healthy inclinations become "shoulds" "musts" then there is a big problem. Consider a situation that bothers you, and find a deeper "should" that's related to an experience you "must" have or avoid. Face the should, ask this question: "Is it really true?"...

There's a way to relate to the endless To Do list that's freer and less burdened. When we "do freely" we refresh in having a sense of choice....